This event has marked my existence forever, alternating moments of deep despair with moments of joy for my new life. I witnessed the difficulty of my parents to relate to me and me to them, and I am profoundly convinced that with the proper psychological or coaching support, both in pre-adoption and post-adoption, many pains and breakdowns would have been avoided over the years. My parents and I would have had a more serene path and greater clarity in the direction to take. I would have lived the event of adoption less dramatically, without finding myself asking so many questions to which I had no answer, without feeling the sense of abandonment, like a dress sewn on that I could not change.
Adoption is a beautiful thing. I can certainly compare it to a pregnancy, made of dreams, expectations, sacrifices, enthusiasm for a new life that will come. Your heart and veins will be crossed by pure love for a strongly desired child, who will take a special place in your heart forever. Adoption can be compared to a beautiful rose that has its thorns, where the thorns are the difficulties encountered pre and after this path, but with the proper support and guidance, you will live this new adventure in harmony and balance. Using my personal experience and studies, I will guide you on this beautiful journey made of love, preparing you for adoption in the most peaceful way possible and helping your little ones deal with the adoption event less dramatically, because what matters is their serenity. We often hear about adoption and the beautiful meaning that this gesture assumes, but sometimes, too little is said, or too little attention is paid to the children who are involved in this process. It is crucial to understand that childhood is a delicate phase, and if children are not guided, helped, and understood, they will only be marked by many scars in their souls, generating insecurity, insufficient self-confidence, and finding difficulties to love and be loved. In the section “Inside My Story“, you will find more details about my adoption history.